Monday, April 28, 2008

The Lecture about Love

 We were born to love, Castle (a psychiatrist) said when she starts her lecture. At that moment, I could not understand what that means, - and just try to define the meaning- . In fact, her lecture was all about defining love in four categories - Philia (love as a friendship), Romance (temporality love), Agape (absolute love for strangers) and Eros (superego : supernatural desires). If there is a relation between these categories and our natural ability to love, I would say that we are just surrounded by these types of love as the air, whether we want it or not. As an interesting fact, the four types of love relates with our quality of lives that some of that makes our lives to be richer than ever – specially, Philia and Agape - . Moreover, she emphasized that Eros is an important role in our lives that let us be just who we are - however, when people are fallen in love, often forget themselves- . In conclusion, as love has just given us from our birth to utill we die, we will continue to give this to someone just as we were born to love.

6 comments:

Jack Skyfer said...

And sure you have someone to give that too, eh?

Emily said...

although fall in love can make people crazy, I enjoy that feeling.

Choyi said...

Good for you, Emily! I hope to enjoy that kind of feelings. will see... ;)

mehrnaz said...

beautiful conclusion choyi.i`m in lovae too and i think its a imazing feeling adn when u love some one u feel mor econfident and relax.i feel in this way.

Alaa M said...

Hi Choyi...
your expression about this Love lecture is beautiful just as your heart
.

Alaa A said...

Love feeling is good. I wonder if there is a good definition of love that capture its meanings